Well, if he is happy that's all that matters. But while I'm here, Ellen was nominated for an Oscar as Best Actress a few years ago, if nominated again that will put him in the Best Actor slot I imagine. There have been rumblings about doing away with him/her categories and just calling it Best Actor which covers everyone. Male, female, trans, gay, straight, gender fluid, and I am sure there are more that I am missing. I think it's too much, I'm gay and I can't keep up with all these terms people want to be identified by these days! LOL.
Today you could be standing next to someone who is trying their best not to fall apart. So whatever you do today, do it with kindness.