My parents went to a funeral once for a man who shot himself in the chest. Ahead of them in the line to see the man at visitation, the town's gossip and all around busy body had the balls to pull down the man shirt so she could see the entrance hole!
A few years ago my husband had been really sick and lost way too much weight. At the cemetary of a funeral for my husband's uncle. Dan's (my hubby) sister said really loud to Dan "You had better watch it or you will be put in the ground next!" Now this was said in a moment of prayer for the deceased, it really pissed me off so I hollared at her after the service. You can care about your relatives but I just thought this was a really, really bad time to be yelling that at someone elses funeral!